Hello friends of this wonderful community @colmena, blessed start of the week for everyone, I hope you are in excellent health, taking all the pertinent measures to emerge victorious from this ordeal that we had to live, today I join the initiative proposed by my friend @veronicamartinc, here is the invitation Publication and I take the opportunity to invite my friends @irvinc and @aglaide to join me.

Menciona 4 tipos de personas que no desearías en tu vida y ¿Porque?

En la viña del señor hay de todo, por tanto existen personas con diferentes formas de ser, de pensar y de actuar; sin embargo es decisión personal con quien te relacionas para que tu día a día sea beneficioso, fructífero, alegre y divertido. Elegir muy bien a quien tener a tu lado es lo que te puede llevar al éxito, por tanto debes tener un ojo clínico para que las influencias negativas no te toquen, debido a que si nos rodeamos de personas tóxicas, estas nos agotan y nos hacen el día gris.

En la actualidad necesitamos estar enfocados y convivir con personas que brillen con luz propia y que irradien alegría, positivismo, ganas de hacer las cosas bien, por tanto, estar rodeados de personas que a todo le digan no puedo, no lo se hacer, no lo voy a lograr, es sinónimo de fracaso rotundo, además esto altera el desarrollo de cualquier actividad que se quiera emprender.

Mention 4 types of people that you would not want in your life and why?

In the vineyard of the Lord there is everything, therefore there are people with different ways of being, thinking and acting; However, it is a personal decision with whom you relate so that your day to day is beneficial, fruitful, joyful and fun. Choosing very well who to have by your side is what can lead you to success, therefore you must have a clinical eye so that negative influences do not touch you, because if we surround ourselves with toxic people, they exhaust us and make us the gray day.

At present we need to be focused and live with people who shine with their own light and who radiate joy, positivism, desire to do things well, therefore, be surrounded by people who tell everything I can not, I do not know how to do it, no I am going to achieve it, it is synonymous with resounding failure, in addition this alters the development of any activity that you want to undertake.

Dentro de esos 4 tipos de personas que no deseo en mi vida, están:

1.- Las criticonas: Son personas sin vida propia, a todo lo que ven siempre les encuentran un supuesto detalle que no les cuadra, nunca hay nada bien hecho. Realizan conclusiones y juicios a priori y por mas que gastes saliva, tiempo, energía explicándoles nunca te entienden, pareciera que aras en el mar; además cuando les solicitas una explicación del por qué critican, nunca tienen una respuesta satisfactoria y eso resta energia.

2.- Las Victimas: Esas personas que adoptan un papel de víctima, que ante todo colocan una excusa y para todo siempre tienen a un culpable por sus errores y/o fracasos, bien lejos con ellas. Son sumamente tóxicas, por cuanto nunca van a aceptar que tienen una responsabilidad y generalmente señalan con el dedo al que ellos consideran culpables de su derrota; definitivamente, son un dolor de cabeza, es mejor ni recordarlas porque pueden aparecer.

3.- Las Mentirosas: El éxito en la vida se logra contando alrededor con personas en las que puedas colocar toda tu confianza porque sabes que al necesitarlas ahí van a estar; tener cerca gente que para quedar bien, miente, desgasta, resta energía. Cerca de mi pueden estar mientras no las descubra, porque si algo me indigna es que me digan mentiras y después que se pierde la confianza, se pierde todo, así que lejos de mí.

4.- Las Chismosas: Las personas que viven inseguras, siempre van a crear un chisme, pueden destruir en un minuto lo que te haya costado años construir. Tener a una persona chismosa en tu entorno cercano es destructivo, en segundos crea rápidamente un ambiente negativo y nunca produce ideas que puedan llevarte a lograr cosas exitosas.

Among those 4 types of people that I do not want in my life, are:

1.- The criticisms: They are people without a life of their own, they always find a supposed detail that does not fit them, there is never anything well done. They make a priori conclusions and judgments and no matter how much you spend saliva, time, energy explaining to them, they never understand you, it seems that you plow in the sea; Furthermore, when you ask them for an explanation of why they criticize, they never have a satisfactory answer and that takes away energy.

2.- The Victims: Those people who adopt a victim role, who first of all make an excuse and always have someone to blame for their mistakes and / or failures, well away with them. They are extremely toxic, in that they will never accept that they have a responsibility and generally point the finger at what they consider to be guilty of their defeat; definitely, they are a headache, it is better not to remember them because they can appear.

3.- The Liars: Success in life is achieved by counting around people in whom you can place all your trust because you know that when you need them they will be there; to have people around who to look good, lie, wear out, drain energy. They can be close to me as long as I do not discover them, because if something outrages me is that they tell me lies and after trust is lost, everything is lost, so far from me.

4.- The Gossipers: People who live insecure will always create a gossip, they can destroy in a minute what has taken you years to build. Having a gossipy person in your close environment is destructive, in seconds it quickly creates a negative environment and never produces ideas that can lead you to achieve successful things.

Es así, que como sólo deseo que mi vida sea un arcoíris repleto de sonrisas, procuro en lo posible de mantenerme alejada de este tipo de personas, a fin de que no opaquen mi brillo, no me resten energía y no perturben mi paz y mi felicidad.

Thus, since I only want my life to be a rainbow full of smiles, I try as much as possible to stay away from these types of people, so that they do not dull my brightness, they do not take away my energy and they do not disturb my peace and my happiness.