Relationships, feelings and fall outs

In the realm of relationships a smooth happy life is what we all prefer. If we feel good we work good. It certainly is one of the keys to productivity. But unfortunately getting on with others is not always achieved no matter how hard we try. Have you every felt that no matter your intention, how carefully you chose your words or how cautious you tread there is still that chance you will be misperceived?

The result of which is likely to lead to angst feelings, fractious relationships and even fall outs. This is definitely not helpful in any situation.

Why does this happen?
One simple explanation has to do with different kinds of relationships. A couple come to my mind. Firstly, there are those relationships that one feels instantly in sync with individuals right from the start, a positive spark of connection occurs that is comfortable and feels right with both individuals, feeling understood and accepted. Basically they just get on.

Then, there are those relationships where both individuals do not have an easy connection, rather they bristle from the start. A block exists threatening the flow of understanding and acceptance of effective outcomes. This does not mean the end of course. Nothing has to be a complete failure. It only takes one of the parties to take the first step to hoist the white flag, to self-evaluate, problem solve, actively listen etc.

But, no matter how hard one tries, working it out may not take place. It is dependent on how well an individual hangs on to his/her feelings of being wronged. It all comes down to personal choice and determination to shift or not to shift. Some relationships do not have happy endings, there is no solution. It just is.

But, from my perspective as a wise #silverblogger we all learn as we travel through life and I am still learning about relationships. The hurt and disappointment is as strong as it was when I was young.