Tengo varios días y publicaciones, usando una frase y/o idea, básicamente se trata de que cada quien tiene su realidad, con realidad me refiero a que cada quien tiene su mundo particular el cual este compuesto de distintos elementos, en esa realidad hay presencias y carencias de todo tipo y además de nuestras creencias, complejos, traumas, fortalezas y tantas cosas que nos componen como ser humano y que sin duda forman parte de esa realidad.
I have several days and publications, using a phrase and / or idea, basically it is that everyone has their own reality, with reality I mean that everyone has their own particular world which is composed of different elements, in that reality there are presences and lacks of all kinds and in addition to our beliefs, complexes, traumas, strengths and so many things that make us up as human beings and that certainly are part of that reality.
Por ejemplo, no puede tener la misma vista de la vida quien vive de un salario y debe hacer milagros para cubrir gastos de toda índole a una persona que tiene empresa y su flujo de dinero por otro lado no puede tener la misma percepción del mundo quien vive en un zona humilde a quien vive en una mansión, inclusive mi vecina, que vive en la misma urbanización que yo, puede tener y muy seguramente tiene una percepción de la vida distinta a la mía, nos criamos en lugares diferente con familias diferentes y cada una de las dos somos únicas.
For example, someone who lives on a salary and must work miracles to cover all kinds of expenses cannot have the same view of life as a person who has a company and its cash flow, on the other hand, someone who lives in a humble area cannot have the same perception of the world as someone who lives in a mansion, even my neighbor, who lives in the same urbanization as me, can have and surely has a different perception of life than mine, we grew up in different places with different families and each one of us is unique.
Ahora bien, porque yo traigo esto a colación, muchas veces caemos en molestias, disgustos o no entendemos a los que nos rodean porque creemos que el único punto de vista valido o verdadero es el nuestro, que esa es la verdad y punto, sin tener respeto, consideración y hasta delicadeza con la otra persona.
En días recientes he tenido diferencias con algunos amigos, conocidos y familiares por estos motivos, no puedo pretender que ellos vean las cosas como yo las veo o viceversa, debemos aprender a respetar puntos de vista y estilos de vida, así no los compartamos o aprobemos.
Now, why I bring this up, many times we get annoyed, upset or do not understand those around us because we believe that the only valid or true point of view is ours, that this is the truth, period, without having respect, consideration and even delicacy with the other person.
In recent days I have had differences with some friends, acquaintances and family for these reasons, I can not pretend that they see things as I see them or vice versa, we must learn to respect points of view and lifestyles, even if we do not share or approve them.
Por otro lado, es muy duro cuando alguien por tener presente parte de nuestra realidad o vida arrase con todo por querer defender su punto de vista, sin pensar en las consecuencias de sus actos y lamentablemente cuando reaccionan a las consecuencias de sus actos. el daño ya este hecho.
On the other hand, it is very hard when someone for having present a part of our reality or life, destroys everything for wanting to defend their point of view, without thinking about the consequences of their actions and unfortunately when they react to the consequences of their actions, the damage is already done.
What is more important, or at least from my point of view is that we try to put ourselves in the shoes of the other, we do not know what experiences lived or lives that person, what are their problems, their ghosts, their motives to continue, it is very easy to judge or point without knowing, without knowing the background.
In conclusion, each reality is unique and incomparable with another, be delicate when you try to understand the reasons or motives of someone else or try not to get angry or feel hurt when someone does not understand your vision, they are not obliged to do so, so I say goodbye after these words that have been written with the best intention, I leave wishing you can express your opinion, through a comment.
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