I know you wonder what secret do I want to say about women's. Being a lady,raised by a mother and lived with a woman. I have come to realize this, little secret about women that have to be solved by their partner or spouse but won't come out of their mouth.
Most women are always embarrassed to ask their man for money or for something they need, always embarrassed. They would rather take keep their challenges secretly or look for help elsewhere than going to him to ask for some help,even when she knows that he has the capacity to handle it , they don't just feel right about it, especially for women with an independently ' I should take care of myself' mentality. And the problem is not a lack of courage or pride, the challenge is that they feel responsible for themselves and more than anything else they hate that you might feel batty.
They would rather get help somewhere else,even when those sources are likely not to be responsive. She will prefer to take the chances than ask you.
She expects you to figure out that something is not right. She expects you to read her body language and her moods. She expects you to read her words when she is silent. But instead after you ask ' how are you ',the next thing is ' have you eaten ' and nothing more.
This goes to husband,fiancee, boyfriends,and boyfriends to be.
As a man, you shouldn't be comfortable that your partner is not asking you for anything,it is really bad if you do. Don't feel relaxed just because she works,so she can take care do herself, even the richest woman has needs only a man can satisfy.
Don't wait until your wife or partner come to you for little things. Grown men ask for what she needs, they don't wait to be asked. Most men cannot remember the last time they recharge their partners phone while some didn't even have their partner account details.
If you are part of them,start using your senses now. Change your ways. Love is not free uncle!!the price is responsibility.