In life, we hear two different set of words from two sets of people and I'll start with the set that say words like:
Oh Life is so unfair, do I deserve all these pains and difficulties in life? Why me?
Shit happens and we hear these set of people who go through it say words like this in despair. They tend to forget the good things life has given to them before the hurt and pain. They feel like life is being impartial to them, they wish life isn't unfair to them. But the who would wish for life to be unfair to them? Nobody I guess.
I've been having stomach ache since yesterday and it's not relieving me at all, like I've not been myself since yesterday... I even began to feel like hurting myself elsewhere just so I don't feel the stomach pain anymore but that would only amount to more pains and I don't think I want to go through that.
Life may be painful and hurtful sometimes but then, Shit Happens. We can't control the bad things that comes to us sometimes but we can only prepare ourselves to be strong in such times and go through it till life give us a good time to enjoy.
We hear another set of people in life say words like:
Oh life is good, life is sweet, I have all I need and I'm so happy
Even in the tough and painful life we find ourselves, good things happen to us from time to time. We tend to feel happy and very grateful that sometimes we forget the pain we've once been through. Good times in life makes us see that life isn't all that bad, there are still some many things to be grateful for. When these good things happen to us, we find ourselves giving motivation and encouragement to those who haven't felt the good part of life yet or those who curse at life for being unfair or those who keep wishing for death to come take them.
A married woman went through hell in the hands of her husband and mother in law even to the extent that she almost took her life all because she couldn't conceive. She conceived and gave birth to a twin after ten years of waiting and hoping... The woman agreed that life could be unfair sometimes and be fair sometimes.
We can't also control the good things that happen to us but we can always learn to be happy no matter what and accept the good things that life brings to us. We can live life to the fullest even though we passed through so many hard times before we met good things... Convince those that are yet to see life in a positive way to have a change of heart.
Those two part of life (Good and bad) are what makes life what it is - It Favours, It Hurts
But I'll like to share what @nainaztengra said in her post titled IF GOOD TIMES DO NOT STAY - NEITHER DO BAD ONES
Nothing is permanent in nature, sometimes we may feel it's getting too much dragged than our tolerance level, but then still it is never going to be permanent.
No matter how long our bad times take and how short our good times take in life... Always keep in mind that:
Life's Like That - It Favours, It Hurts
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Thanks for reading!!!