(ESP/ENG) Crianza Amorosa: Mas Besos, Caricias y Abrazos // Loving Parenting: More Kisses, Caresses and Hugs
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Al observar estos métodos disciplinarios evocamos recuerdos bien sea porque fueron aplicadas estas medidas para castigarnos a la hora de una travesura o porque nosotros a la hora de educar a nuestros hijos los hemos utilizado
La manera en que fuimos criados venia llena de una carga de disciplina y autoridad en la que nuestros padres tenían pocas manifestaciones de amor y cariño. Que conste no por ello quería decir que no nos amaban, simplemente que asi fueron también criados y se pensaba que esas manifestaciones eran debilidad ante la autoridad que debían inculcar. Era una crianza impositiva
Hello my Hivelovers, I imagine that many of you feel identified as I do, when we observe memes about the flip-flop, the leash and the wooden paddles.
When we observe these disciplinary methods we evoke memories either because these measures were applied to punish us at the time of a prank or because we have used them when educating our children.
The way we were raised was filled with a burden of discipline and authority in which our parents had few manifestations of love and affection. This is not to say that they did not love us, but simply that they were also raised in this way and it was thought that these manifestations were weakness before the authority they were supposed to instill. It was an imposing upbringing
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Sin embargo como la vida es un constante movimiento y una frecuente adaptación, hemos tenido que enfrentarnos a que estos esquemas de crianza se han visto sustituidos por una manera de educar donde podemos permitirnos llenar de abrazos, caricias, besos y amor a nuestros hijos sin dejar de establecer límites e inculcar una disciplina familiar.
Estas nuevas generaciones, a la que también muchos de uds mis hivelovers que están leyendo pertenecen, nos encaro con el hecho de dar amor es enseñar que el afecto es fundamental en el desarrollo integral y sobretodo en una adecuada salud mental.
Antes no se nos permitía preguntar tantas cosas, se obedecía mas que indagar y tratar de esperar explicaciones, ahora nos como padres respondemos con amor a todas esas inquietudes que nuestros hijos nos plantean.
The reality is that many of us have been educated with few affective expressions, so we repeat it as a pattern with our children.
However, as life is a constant movement and frequent adaptation, we have had to face the fact that these patterns of upbringing have been replaced by a way of educating where we can allow ourselves to fill our children with hugs, caresses, kisses and love while establishing limits and instilling family discipline.
These new generations, to which also many of you my hivelovers who are reading belong, face us with the fact of giving love is to teach that affection is fundamental in the integral development and above all in an adequate mental health.
Before we were not allowed to ask so many questions, we obeyed rather than inquire and try to wait for explanations, now we as parents respond with love to all those concerns that our children ask us.
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Al criar amorosamente les brindamos a nuestros hijos una seguridad, un apoyo y protección donde ellos pueden sentir que al necesitarnos para lo que sea estaremos allí para ellos.
Es acompañarlos en sus triunfos, levantarlos en los fracasos y en ambos casos tener unos brazos abiertos a todo lo que dan para darles un abrazo de esos inolvidables, calurosos y en los que nuestros hijos se dejan caer como cuando son unos bebes que se encuentran entre los brazos de sus padres.
Loving parenting is to fill educational spaces with love, respecting the rhythms that each person has when learning, avoiding forcing situations that are stressful and frustrating, using other methods to punish with strategies that do not mistreat or cause so much physical and emotional damage.
By lovingly parenting we provide our children with security, support and protection where they can feel that if they need us for anything, we will be there for them.
It is to accompany them in their triumphs, to lift them up in their failures and in both cases to have open arms to give them one of those unforgettable, warm hugs in which our children let themselves fall as when they are babies in the arms of their parents.
Es una crianza donde somos ejemplo, asi que procuremos comunicarnos asertivamente en nuestro entorno, en la que nuestros hijos representan una figura activa en el hogar con voz y voto porque hay que escucharles y ellos son parte fundamental de nuestro hogar.
Nuestros hijos son nuestra mejor obra, sea como sea, pero representan lo que somos, asi que criar amorosamente implica una revisión personal y familiar donde podamos facilitar el proceso de crear adultos no solo responsables, buenos y productivos sino felices, llenos de amor, afecto y con sonrisas autenticas.
I admit that being in that transition between one way of parenting and another is not easy, because what we have in our subconscious is not erased just like that, but I am sure that with being assertive, listening to our children and giving them our love, the use of this style of parenting is not so complicated.
It is an upbringing where we are an example, so we try to communicate assertively in our environment, in which our children represent an active figure in the home with a voice and vote because we have to listen to them and they are a fundamental part of our home.
Our children are our best work, however, but they represent who we are, so loving parenting involves a personal and family review where we can facilitate the process of creating adults not only responsible, good and productive but happy, full of love, affection and authentic smiles.
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I hope you liked this post, and that it leads you to reflect on the way you are raising your children and the relationship you have with them.
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The content is my property
The separators have been designed by me in power point.
The translator used was Deepl.com.