Today we are exposed to so much day to day stress, and for this reason in many homes it could be the case that many parents come to argue about things that in the end even they could not explain clearly how that situation began in their home, however, we must bear in mind that this behavior not only affects the couple, our children will always be the most affected by witnessing such behavior.
The common thing in this life is to be different, referring to this, in many cases we will have differences with our spouse, this is where we must work as a team to solve any mishap that may affect the peace of our marriage and our children, but how to avoid arguing? Something that can motivate us to argue with our partner is to have had an inappropriate example when we were children, but let's break that chain, arguing in front of our children could lead them to lose respect for us and even worse that they imitate us when they reach adulthood.
When a misunderstanding arises try to avoid raising your voice in front of the children, and remember not only for them, our spouse deserves equal respect, sometimes a situation may bother us, but usually it may happen that we do not know all the details at the time, in this case take some time to talk alone with your spouse, and calmer you can pay more attention and let your partner can express themselves and reach agreements.
Let's remember that what can generate a moment of tension in our home is not what we say but how we say it. For our children we will always be their superhero, that person with whom they feel safe, but seeing that we tend to maintain a conflictive attitude can lead them to become fearful and therefore move away from us in a certain way.
As a married couple we must recognize that in many cases we will not agree, but if for a moment we do not speak in the best way in front of our family, do not hesitate to apologize immediately, this will teach our children that we know how to recognize when we are wrong and that we love and respect our partner.
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